When Harry landed those first tentative smacks on my behind, I could never have dreamt how much my life was about to change. Our second spanking left some light bruising, prompting me to put 'how to spank your wife' into a search engine, hoping for some advice on how to spank without leaving marks. That's when I found Blogland. I had never thought I was a freak for wanting to be spanked but, nevertheless, it was so good to find that there were women who felt the same need as I did. Even better, a lot of them were older women, like me.
I lurked in the shadows, not having the nerve to comment and never, in my wildest dreams, imagined becoming friends with some of the women whose blogs I read so avidly. And if anyone had told me that I would not only write my own blog one day but also meet other bloggers in person, I would have sent for the men in white coats to take them away.
If you've read Jan's blog during the past couple of days, you will know that the two of us met up on Friday. There was no awkwardness between us, it was as if we'd been friends for ever, which I hope we will be in reality now. Jan is just as lovely in real life as she is on her blog and we had a lot of fun together. We talked so much our coffee went cold and we completely forgot about lunch.
Jan knew it was my birthday a few days later and very sweetly gave me presents, a lovely bracelet and some wooden salad servers. I'd never owned salad servers before, so they came in very handy when Harry made a big salad for lunch. Who am I kidding? I knew perfectly well what my dear friend meant them for, as did Harry.
I shall be seeing Jan again soon, when we go to London next month to have lunch with some other bloggers, an event organised by Ella. There will be six of us, which seems to be a magic number at the moment. We're all excited and can't wait.
I could never have foreseen that being spanked would lead to making friends in different parts of the world, with whom I can be myself and who are so supportive of one another.
Oh, and it's done amazing things for my marriage too.
Rosie
Rosie,
ReplyDeleteThe innocent glad-to-meet-you gift........... How sweet of Jan! I loved reading your post and picture you two having a great time. September is just around the corner. We all look forward to your reports, one and all.
Meredith
It was very 'sweet' of Jan, she's a really lovely lady and I enjoyed our time together immensely. We're all getting excited about the September meeting, not long now.
DeleteRosie xx
You are a very lucky lady! Isn't it great to have a friend who knows 'just what to get'?
ReplyDeleteYes, I am indeed a lucky lady. Gifts like that can only be made by a special kind of friend.
DeleteRosie xx
Rosie its so good you and Jan had a fantastic get together. Lucky you getting those 'salad servers' for your birthday present. I'm sure they will be used often, LOL!
ReplyDeleteHope you had a wonderful birthday.
Can't wait to hear all about the September gathering with the 6 of you meeting for lunch.
Hugs Lindy
Lindy, are you suggesting I'm not the angel I claim to be? The ribbon is still on the salad servers at the moment, though I can't guarantee how long they'll stay that way, Harry does like to play with new toys.
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Hi Rosie, I am glad you "liked" your present. Actually my husband chose them , said he thought Harry would like them. I am looking forward to seeing you again. Just heard we have grandbaby for two weeks, she will have just gone home in time for September. I am wondering if I will have got the hang of the baby lark by then. I am snipping and moaning at hubby, trouble is he is too worn out to do anything about it
ReplyDeletelove Jan, xx
Jan, I was amazed how quickly time flew when we were together. I'm looking forward to seeing you again, too. Not long now till September. Do thank John for choosing my present. I wonder what gave him the idea that Harry needed some new toys? You know that I am almost as angelic as you are!
DeleteTwo weeks with grandbaby, you'll be shattered. I bet John will recover quickly when she's back home, then watch out for his itchy palm.
Rosie xx
Rosie,
ReplyDeleteHow great that you and Jan got to spend time together! It only whets my appetite for our lunch in London. And you are so right. It is like you have known each other for a very long time.
Perhaps maybe that is because this is the only place we can truly bare our souls. When we meet, you will already know all my secrets. It is a very special brand of friendship.
Soon There Will Be Hugs on Your Side of the Pond!
Ella
Ella, we are all looking forward to to our lunch; I'm sure we'll have a riotous time. Jan and I stopped talking only to laugh. Look out London!
DeleteYou're right about the special kind of friendship; this is the only place I can truly be myself, other than when I'm with Harry.
Looking forward to those hugs on this side of the Pond.
Rosie xx
Rosie, so glad you're here.
ReplyDeleteLeigh, I'm glad too; it's a very special place.
DeleteRosie xx
I'm glad you are here too! Happy you and Jan have met and will meet another fun group of 6!
ReplyDeleteIsn't it wonderful to already have such a connection that you forget the food on your lunch date! Truly a sign of good times. May your London get together be just as special. Thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteI am so Happy you have met some great friends through TTWD, I have also been fortunate in meeting some of my Best friends the same way. They mean so much to me, and funny when we get together rarely does sp****** even come up. September is right around the corner, have an Amazing time!
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